“That’s the thing with magic. You’ve got to know it’s still here, all around us, or it just stays invisible for you.” -Charles de Lint
This afternoon my seven-year old asked me why we celebrate Hanukkah, and I explained to her the miracle of the oil and the lights. She was fascinated by the story and asked me what allows miracles to happen, what the force is that compels wild things to occur and make us believe in the magic that can exist in the world. I explained to her that magic as we think of it is just illusion, all of which can be explained, but that true magic is when something unexplainable happens, when the fabric of the universe is unveiled and all its beauty spills out into our hands, but we don’t see where it comes from. It’s the magic of the oil, and the magic of the magi, and the magic of a larger than life human being with a love of giving gifts to children.
“Who is God?” she queried after I told her the story of why we honor the traditions of the Jewish faith.
“God is the reason everything happens,” I explained.
“So is God magic, since he brought about the miracle?” she asked, scrunching her face up like she was thinking hard.
“Yes, in a way, God is the ultimate magic. He creates something out of nothing,” I answered.
“Like the miracle of the oil?” she asked. She asks a lot of questions, but that’s okay. It’s how she learns.
“Exactly like the miracle of the oil,” I said, nodding my head.
“Well then, what about Christmas? Tell me that story,” she said. And I realized that I had never before truly talked to either one of my children about the real reason for the season. Continue reading “A Father and Daughter Conversation: Of Magic and Spirit”